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When I Say No, I Feel Guilty Manuel J. Smith
Publisher: Random House Publishing Group

Is the one who can turn down an invitation to dinner without giving. And now, after all these years, we still feel guilty when we don't comply with someone else's wishes. I have difficulty expressing my differing opinion in the face of an opposing viewpoint. I may feel guilty for saying it so often, but it doesn't seem to stop me. Any excuse.” By that definition, are you free? But I still know and feel the pain and suffering eating disorders carry with them. The playwright Jules Renard wrote, “The only man who is really free. When I say “no”, I feel guilty. When others distance from me, I feel anxious. If you struggle with over-committing yourself there is a solution to your dilemma. What does matter is that there are times when we need to say “no” to people. Possibly because when growing up we were told that it's not nice to tell people no. Every day It is there--that terrifying It that tries to get a hold of so many others. I can't forget, but I can write. I want to please people in my heart, but so often I seemed to have failed that I went the other way. And there are times when saying “no” produces a feeling of guilt.